this was one of those wear-out-the-record songs, i mean i must have listened to it – a hundred times? three hundred forty two? who knows, it was the late eighties and i was a mess, and this song … it was a *movie* in my mind fer cryin' out loud, and then it was just … gone. gone from my internal soundtrack (songs burnt indelibly into my synapses i can nearly hear if i listen intently to the silences). it's good i retain music in my mind because i'm just awful with actual copies of it – and back in…